Dating someone from a different background
But this girl i dated for a while had money and she would throw it up to me. I think as long as both people understand that the other came from a different background and try to understand life in their shoes, it can work.So that is why i tryed being the wanna be rich kid ha i know at the time it was stupid i was young i learn over the years just be yourself no matter what... But it takes being honest, OP, which it sounds like you've already figured out. the truth will ALWAYS unveil itself and at the cost of your integrity. and hopefully your mate will understand that you two didn't come from the same neck of the woods.These differences will undoubtedly require extra attention at times just to be able to communicate effectively, because each will have gained different “filters” and perspectives through the experiences of their own subculture(s).The ability to communicate is a key element in the success of a relationship.Being open to other cultures and subcultures, makes the world a bigger and better place to live in – for you. Think about it; you have two minds coming together to share a segment of life together. Different genders will process thought, and communicate, differently.Those different minds are probably what attracted you to each other in the first place.Those end up being the things you and your partner have to work on in your relationship to accept about the other, or work out in compromise.Don’t waste time trying to change your partner though; that will just make YOU crazy.
When people first get together, they go through that “getting to know each other” stage and putting their “best foot forward.” For some, they’ll progress to the “in-love” stage.
But what they really mean is how they think it will affect them.
People you work with may decide to have a reaction to you and your partner’s age or race differences.
Do this, and you’ll live happily ever after together.
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